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    Sexual Resources for Couples Healing From Sexual Addiction


    • Wendy Maltz, sex therapist/marriage counselor, has a program called Relearning Touch. It was designed for couples in recovery when one partner was sexually abused in childhood, but even if that isn't the case, healing after sexual addiction can be facilitated by this program. Classic sensate focus, from low risk to higher sensuality.



    • Gottsex, a video program by John and Julie Gottman, teaching "How to make real love, not just impersonal, shallow sex."




    • OMGYes is a frank, educational, instructional website about female sexuality. For a nominal fee, you receive access to lessons from real women, age 18 - 95 who share about what works and doesn't work to bring them pleasure. This includes non-exploitive video lessons - NOT for everyone or those in early stage recovery, but this can be an excellent resource for those who are ready.







    • Books by a married couple, PhD sex therapists who are also in recovery from sex addiction, Ginger and Bill Bercaw:




    • Also, there's the Open Hearts workbook by Patrick Carnes, PhD:



    • These resources are primarily focused on heterosexual couples, but another resource written by a gay male therapist, which applies to all couples, is "Ritual as Resource" by therapist Michael Picucci. Chapter 14, the Partnering Path, focuses on S.E.X. or "Soul Energy eXchange."


    • A daily meditation book by Alexandra Katehakis can be a wonderful tool for couples to read together and talk about their thoughts and feelings evoked by the reading:


    Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence

    12-Step Program for Couples: Recovering Couples Anonymous (RCA)

    • Recovering Couples Anonymous: Check out their "Couple Agreements" tab, where you'll find two examples of Sexuality Agreements that other couples have used successfully: